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so i havent been feeling muscle bikes lately |
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I just got out of a 2 year relationship that ended horribly for me. My ex cheated on me and left me for the guy but strung me along for a week to make sure he was gonna work and she wanted to leave me. All this happened in like 2 weeks and then it was just over. Then my band and I got into an argument and I ended up quitting. Now Im back in the band, we worked it out. But the whole situation with the ex is constantly on my mind. I loved the girl and she just $h!t on me. And back before all the girl muscle bikes were hers and she bought me a couple soo they just remind me of her. But Im trying to get back on track shes not worth all this. Its giving her too much credit. So once I get over this mental battle whenever that is, Im hoping to get back in the hobby full force. Just an update on me....
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ladies comeand go mate
muscle bikes are also a love so just hang in there and go for a ride when ever your down, they will never leave you on there own accord |
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I am sure we have all been there or in a similar situation so we do understand. I was in a 7 year relationship and had 2 kids with my X and the same thing happened to me. I even allowed my X to move back it twiuce to try to work on it for the kids but in the end she she wanted to party and I was settling down, getting a home, making a living. I was upset for about 6 months, or more, but in the end I got custody of my Daughters, and moved on.
Shortly after I met my current wife and got married and it has been great since, for the last 10 years. I look back now and realize that there are two kinds of people in the relationship, you have a sinker and a swimmer. My X was a sinker, I was constantly trying to save her somehow and if you have ever tried to pull a drowning person to safety you know that it is near impossible and you usually go down with them. My current wife is a swimmer and we work together. I hope you find your swimmer soon. ![]() |
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Yep Ben I had the same thing with my now EX wife but the big difference is I had to sell my house and move and lose my children to live with and have to pay child support until I am 55 at least you found out early and you don't have to change your whole life for someone who only cared about them self. If you look at it in time you were blessed.
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SwingBikeDude |
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Always more fish in the sea...................time to go fishin!
DT
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Sorry to hear you are having some troubles. A girl like that is not worth being upset over. Find yourself a girl that treats you right. There are so many single women out there it is ridiculous. Don't be someone's plan B. You are better than that!
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MuscleBikeNut |
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Take some advice from an old pro who has been down your road twice and is now on wife number 3.
1st wife (same age as me and a "9") left me for her millionaire boss. Now she's fat as butter. 2nd wife (10 years younger than me) built like a brick house, left me for a pick-up drivin' cowboy, who thought he could get to my money. Didn't work out for her after I stomped all over her in court. Dude left her cryin'. 3rd wife (15 years younger than me and a "10") is fantasic! Drinks beer, plays golf, smokes cigars, is OK about my bikes, and goes to all the hot rod meets and cruize nites with me. Incredible!!! I'm poppin' VIAGRA like chiclets. Don't worry, the pain will go away and you'll be happier than before. Its kind of like when somebody steals your car. At first, you really miss your car. After all, you liked your car. But then you get another car. Its newer, faster, a more attractive model, and way more fun to "drive" than your old car. Pretty soon, you don't miss your old car anymore. Forget about your ex. Focus on your hobbies and personal interests that make you happy. Regarding the bikes that remind you of her, just paint 'em and change the seats so they look better/different. Or, sell 'em to one of us and buy some others, or trade 'em for a different bike, whatever. You'll look back in a few months and wonder why you were ever got upset about her leaving. |
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LOL @ Jack.........poppin viagra like chiclets (LMAO). Do you know the generic name for viagra........................"my-cox-uh-floppin"
I have been married twice...................i have the kids, the bikes, the money, pretty much everything i wanted and i still get along with my exwife #2..............she sends me some nice photos every now and then IF you know what i mean. DT ![]() Hang in there, it always works out, just give it some time.
Last Edited By: SwingBikeDude
06/07/10 23:08:49.
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white trash |
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I think Jack has given the best advice so far. I would certainly follow his advice.
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Every woman has something in common, and that is that somebody, somewhere was sick of riding her. LOL
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